Raising Boys vs Girls? A systematic approach to deciding the easiest.

Date June 14, 2007

 Kids

Today, for some reason, I was thinking about a post I read on a blog I that really enjoy (Raising4Boys)

Here’s a quick rundown of the top five reasons why having little boys is better than having little girls:

1. No whining (or less, at least)
2. No pink
3. No ballet
4. No make up
5. No growing up to be teenage daughters

And just for the sake of balance, here are five reasons that girls are better than boys:

1. No testosterone - ’nuff said
2. More than just sneakers
3. No Little League
4. No frogs, snails, and puppydog tails
5. No daughter-in-laws

I wanted to expand this into my own version of the list, broken down into two phases: Pre-puberty and Post-puberty.

Since I’m an Engineer, I had to take a “scientific approach” to this.

First, I created categories that worried me (I took a lot from Raising4Boy’s post). Each category has a “maximum worry points”. Those are just abstracted levels of how much I worry about each category.

All I had to do then was to assign points to boys vs girls in each of the two phases and analyze the results.

Boys Vs Girls

click on the image above to expand it

From the graph above, we can “Scientifically conclude” that little girls are easier to raise than little boys, but once they reach puberty, daddy’s little girl is “gone” and teen boys are easier to raise.This worries me, because my kids are still toddlers, so I know there’s still a *lot* ahead of me :) 

* Image provided by iStockPhoto.com

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11 Responses to “Raising Boys vs Girls? A systematic approach to deciding the easiest.”

  1. Mark said:

    lol… so true…

  2. Midweek Links From Money Blogs said:

    [...] Raising Boys vs Girls? A systematic approach to deciding the easiest by J2R @ Journey to Retirement. An *engineering* approach to figure out if boys are easier to raise that girls. Don’t miss the chart in this one. [...]

  3. Moneymonk said:

    LOL, this is funny. I must say teenage boys can become harder they tend to get in legal trouble than girls. I personally think to each it’s own.

    As a female, when I became a teenager I was not as diffucult, I never went crazy for boys I just wanted to form a business and make money. My interests was saving money and playing in the band. I guess each girl is different.

    The chart releys the truth, but each child will know how far to push their parents

  4. Ellen said:

    0 worry points for the possibility of whiny teenagers? Uh…I’d recalculate. :P

  5. Christine said:

    I have always said if I could be guaranteed a boy we would have 4 kids instead of our 2 boys :-) . When they become teenagers, all bets are off. One of my biggest worries during the teen years (and now) concerns driving. This would go for both sexes.

  6. Everyday Disasters » Carnival of Family Life - June 25 2007 said:

    [...] I’m not sure how Journey 2 Retirement could have skipped driving in her list of future worries, but she undertakes to scientifically analyze who is harder to raise - boys or girls. [...]

  7. therapydoc said:

    I LOVE that picture!

  8. kailani said:

    Since I have 2 girls, I’ve always wondered how it would be like to raise boys. Now I know. I’m happy with my girls! hee hee

    Thank you for joining us at the Carnival of Family Life!

  9. Journey2Retirement said:

    @ threapydoc
    I get my pics on iStockPhoto. There are so many awesome pictures there. They’re worth the price.

    @ kailani
    And I’ll always wonder what would be like to raise girls :) Unless we go for a third attempt.

  10. Barbara said:

    It’s funny that you say with boys, there’s no “No frogs, snails, and puppy dog tails”.

    We just had our 8 year old granddaughter visiting from out of state. She spent the good part the the day catching frogs and tadpoles at a local pond.

    Then when I took her shopping, and told her I would buy her a toy. She couldn’t decide between a “flywheel” or a remote control truck. After much deliberation, she chose the truck. When asked if she was home sick, she said “Yes, I miss my dog”. (She’s a lot like her mother, who was also a bit of a “tom boy”.)

    I remember a saying, that goes something like this…..”with boys, you only have to worry about the boys, and with girls, you only have to worry about the boys”.

    How true.

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